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The Last Harmon Standing

Ray Harmon is the fourth generation to run a funeral home in Pratt, Kansas. When the biggest death-care company in North America came knocking, he said no. That was the easy part.

The embalming room smells like formaldehyde and dish soap and something underneath both that you stop noticing after a while, Ray Harmon says, or maybe you just decide you have. It is 7:15 on a Thursday morning in late November, and the temperature outside is eleven degrees and dropping, a flat gray sky pressing down over the Pratt County courthouse four blocks north. Ray is in his office, which is really a converted parlor with wood floors and a window that looks out onto Fourth Street, reviewing a death certificate that came in wrong from the county clerk. He catches it before the family does. He almost always does. This is most of the job — not the grief, not the ceremony, but the thousand quiet administrative catches that keep a family from finding out at the worst possible moment that someone filed the wrong middle name.

He has been doing this for twenty-three years. His father Harold did it for thirty-one years before that. His grandfather Eldon did it for thirty-eight years before that. His great-grandfather Vernon Harmon — who came back from France in 1919 with shrapnel still lodged near his left hip and a calm that his family would later describe as the war's only useful gift to him — opened the original location on Main Street in 1922 with a borrowed $400 and a hand-painted sign. The sign is still there, behind glass in the entryway. The wood has gone the color of strong tea.

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